Q: I unwittingly did not elect to have my husband covered for Survivor Benefits when I retired from the Army in 1995, but for my child. I was advised to ask for help from my Congressman, to possibly get my SBP election changed to include my husband. Should I do this and is this the right person to ask for help in reference to this situation? Also, does this mean if I died, my husband will not have access to TRICARE, ID card and other military privileges? Please help. Thank you.
–Charlene, Beaufort, South Carolina
A: I guess your representative is as good a place as any to go for help on this issue. Unfortunately, the law is pretty clear and I don’t hold out a lot of hope that you’ll get any results. Over the years, I’ve been a fan of the Survivor Benefit Plan and still think that for most folks retiring from the military SBP deserves serious consideration.
As you know, you sign up for the program before retirement. Unfortunately, other than an opportunity to discontinue coverage during the third year of your retirement, you aren’t able to change your election unless there is a major change in the program that results in an open season. The last time this happened was back in 2005 when the Social Security Offset (reduction of survivor benefits from 55% to 35% at age 62) was eliminated. Also, if you were not married at retirement (and thus did not elect SBP) and then got married after retirement you could sign up for coverage within one year of the marriage.
I may have some better news in answering the second part of your question. If something happens to you, your husband’s access to military benefits including TRICARE, installation facilities, commissary and exchange are governed by the 20–20-20 rule:
- The marriage must have lasted at least 20 years.
- The servicemember must have had at least 20 years of service creditable towards retirement.
- The marriage and creditable service must overlap for at least 20 years
If he meets these requirements, he’ll be eligible for military benefits, even if he’s not eligible for SBP payments. Good luck and let me know if you’re able to get anything done on this front.








More good news, I think you did the right thing by NOT taking SBP on your husband. I teach SBP to retiring servicemembers for a living and I usually tell women to consider the fact that statistics say we will outlive men by at least 5 years. Since this is a death benefit, you’d have to die FIRST for him to receive the benefit and that is an unlikely scenario unless he is significantly younger or healthier than you. If you really think you need to plan for him to receive a financial benefit upon your death, consider life insurance. You could name your child as an alternate beneficiary on the policy in the even that he dies first. I hope this is helpful.
KAtie do you have any insight on Retired Reserve SBP? I retired in 2007, do not actually my reserve retirment for another 7 years. i did not elect SBP for my wife.
Would I elect it in the future?
David, yes. With reserve component SBP (RC SBP) you have two opportunities to enroll.1st at the 20 year mark and again at final retirement. I’m a little confused by your comment. Do you mean that you retired already but will not start getting retired pay for 7 more years? If you have not fully retired yet, you will have the chance to enroll before your retirement date. The form with the SBP election is DD-2656–5. To decline coverage for your wife, she has to sign that form and it must be notarized.
The 20–20–20 rule applies to divorce, not death.
l elected SBP when I remarried my first wife.She has multiple medical problems that will unfortunantly result in her demiss before me. Do my payments into SBP cease? What happens with the money I have paid into the program? Can I change over to a child or grand child? If so, is there a ‘buy in’ to do so? Thank you.
Just to add to Chuck’s comment. The 20–20-20 rule does NOT apply to survivors, only divorces. When a military retiree dies, the legal spouse continues full benefits and entitlements for life, or if they remarry. If the second marriage ends in death or divorce, the benefits can be restored, minus the Tricare heathcare benefit.
My father did not set up SBP for my mother and he is now in his 80’s should he pass is it true she will not be entitle to receive his military pay? Will she lose her Tricare for Life
It is true that the pension payments stop the day of his death, she will maintain TFL unless she remarries.